lessons learned: the waiting is the hardest part (but it’s not useless, Dr. Seuss)

The waiting is the hardest part. ~Tom Petty

Oh, the Places You’ll Go!

You can get so confused

that you’ll start in to race

down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace

and grind on for miles across weirdish wild space,


headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.


The Waiting Place…   ~Dr. Seuss

Many years ago, I experienced a feeling I had never known before.  I consulted friends and family, and no one could really name it for me until a minister friend of mind took me back to my childhood.  He reminded me of a book by Dr. Seuss entitled Oh, the Places You’ll Go!

He suggested that I was in the “Waiting Place.”  The Waiting Place?  Yes, he explained, the time between the last big milestone or decision in your life and what lies ahead.   Settle in, he nudged, you don’t know how long you’ll be there.

When I arrived home that day, I ran to my daughter’s room and grabbed the book, and what I read filled my eyes with tears.  A useless place?  What was he trying to tell me?!

Needless to say, the next day I called him.  I can hear my voice now, “What do you mean?  It’s a useless place?!”

“Oh,” he muttered, “does it say that?”

After a long conversation, I understood what he was truly trying to tell me.  While waiting may seem like the hardest part, it’s not useless–it’s all about preparation.

waiting: a time of preparation

Just as our garden waits all winter for spring seeds, and our seeds wait for sun and rain, and our fruits and veggies wait for harvest, we too need to wait.  It offers our bodies and minds time to rest, but more importantly, it prepares our spirits for what’s ahead.

Over the weekend, I was talking with a friend who self-proclaims he has ADD.  He is one of the most knowledgeable gardeners/farmers I know.  He mentioned to me though that he likes doing all the “starting” of projects–making mulch, sprouting seeds and such.  He doesn’t like the “down time” that it takes for stuff to decompose or grow.  It makes him restless.

Sometimes, that’s what the waiting place does for us–makes us restless.  That’s when we get distracted or find “busy work” to keep ourselves entertained rather than maximizing that time to listen and discern what our next steps on the journey may be.  When we fill that time of preparation with “stuff,” that is when we become useless.  (Ok, I’ll give that one to you, Dr. Seuss).

So while Tom Petty may have made an accurate observation about the human condition–most of us do consider waiting as the “hardest part”–I do believe it is also vital to who we are spiritually, professionally, and personally.  The challenge is doing the hard work of just being quiet and still long enough to discover what amazing things are ahead.  Then, my goodness, oh, the places you’ll go!

 

3 thoughts on “lessons learned: the waiting is the hardest part (but it’s not useless, Dr. Seuss)

  1. I found this entry while looking for “lessons learned about waiting,” and I just had to comment. Very well said! In fact, with your permission, I’d like to repost it on my so-called inspirational blog – rainshine.wordpress.com. I’m just finishing up a series of posts on lessons learned and starting a series on waiting, and this would be a great segue. I’d give you credit of course, with links to your site. Rainshine gets quite a few hits, and I’m sure it’d send some traffic your way. Please let me know – and thanks again for a great post!

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